Life keeps coming at me no matter how hard I try to make it better.  Well I guess that is how life works.  It will always come.  No matter how hard I pray life is still going to hand out challenges and tasks that we need to try and over come..  For those of you who believe in God, some of what comes to us is from him, to help us become better, to learn and grow.  Other things we make mistakes and then in turn something happens and we start to struggle.  This can be really hard for us, partially because we thing that God doesn't care for us and wants us to struggle.  Well that is not true.  Just as you don't want your children to struggle,  god does not want us to struggle, but you just can't bail someone out when they need help.  sometimes there is that  learning time that needs to take place.  And isn't that what life is all about. Learning.